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Couples seeking romance are sure to find it in New Orleans, Louisiana. Jazz is the muse, begging couples to swing onto the dance floor or snuggle up in a nightclub booth for a kiss. The architecture is romantic, with flower vines winding around rusting wrought-iron balconies — somehow more beautiful for the wear. Even the cuisine tastes sensuous, with bowls of Creole cuisine like shrimp and grits or crawfish étouffée exciting the palate. Meanwhile, the people of New Orleans are so friendly, it's hard not to smile while exploring this city. After a few days, couples find they are friendlier, too. Make the most of your Big Easy vacation with this list of 10 romantic things to do in New Orleans.

Romantic flower boxes in the French Quarter
Romantic flower boxes in the French Quarter (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

1. Listen to live jazz.

It would be a sin to visit New Orleans and not listen to live jazz. It might be impossible to do, actually. Jazz is ever-present in Crescent city, with musicians playing on street corners, in restaurants, and in nearly every bar. Even if you think you don't like jazz, you may find your toes tapping to this town's sweet tunes.

My husband and I fell in love with the local jazz band, the Ibervillianaires. My favorite memory from our New Orleans romantic getaway is half-dancing in my barstool at the 21st Amendment Bar in the French Quarter while watching these incredible musicians jam out. The lead singer, Chance Bushman, gets the audience clapping, laughing, dancing, and whooping — especially when he jumps out of his chair to scratch a tune or two with his tap shoes on a washboard. Watch the video below to see what I mean!

For the most authentic jazz experience near Bourbon Street, buy tickets for Preservation Hall. You can't buy drinks here, but you can bring in libations from nearby watering holes. Prepare to stand unless you line up very early for one of the shows (8, 9 and 10 pm nightly). All ages are welcomed here. Meanwhile, most jazz clubs can be found on Frenchman Street, about a 10-minute Uber ride from the French Quarter.

The spinning Carousel Bar at Hotel Monteleone features live jazz three to four nights per week
The spinning Carousel Bar at Hotel Monteleone features live jazz three to four nights per week (Photo credit: Hotel Monteleone)

2. Get into the spirit of New Orleans cocktail culture.

New Orleans is a cocktail town. The city is known for its original boozy concoctions like the Sazerac (rye whisky, sugar, bitters) and the Hurricane (rum, passion fruit juice, orange juice, lime juice, simple syrup, orange wedge, and cherry). Even dedicated wine drinkers, like me, might succumb to the lure of mixed drinks when in N'Awlins. Be sure to take a spin on a barstool at the Carousel Bar at Hotel Monteleone, which slowly spins around its mixologists. Or, grab a Bubbly Vive at the swanky lobby bar at Hotel le Marais, a purple delight made from sparkling wine, Chambord, and Crème de Violette.

Even if you don't drink alcohol, you'll learn a lot on a New Orleans Original Cocktail Late Afternoon Walking Tour (with complimentary Natchez punch) or an Early Evening Cocktail History Tour (with four sample cocktails).

Cocktails at VIVE! Bar at Hotel le Marais in New Orleans
Cocktails at VIVE! Bar at Hotel le Marais (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

3. Set sail on the Mississippi River.

There's something so romantic about seeing a city skyline from the water. Set sail on the Mississippi River aboard the Steamboat Natchez during your romantic getaway. You can book a lunch or dinner sailing, but this cruise is about the views and the live jazz, not the food. Book your cruise now!

Steamboat Natchez in New Orleans
Steamboat Natchez (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

4. Tour the Garden District.

Couples will enjoy a Garden District & Lafayette Cemetery Tour. Your knowledgeable guide will lead you past dreamy homes full of New Orleans charm, including the former home of Interview with the Vampire author Ann Rice, and the vacation home of actress Sandra Bullock.

Pink house in the Garden District in New Orleans
Pink house in the Garden District (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

Even the cemeteries in New Orleans are romantic with their beautiful above-ground, often ornate graves. During your tour of Lafayette Cemetery, you'll gain an interesting perspective on the lives and deaths of the people of New Orleans. Did you know Rice's Mayfair Witches and Lestat the vampire were based on this cemetery?

Angel statue in Lafayette Cemetery #1
An angel statue in Lafayette Cemetery #1 (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

5. Stroll through New Orleans City Park.

After a few days exploring the city, connect with nature and with each other at New Orleans City Park. There's plenty to explore in this 1,300-acre green space. Couples can stop to smell the flowers at the New Orleans Botanical Garden, admire the artwork at the New Orleans Museum of Art and Sculpture Garden, play a round of mini-golf at City Putt, and much more. To reach this sprawling park in Mid-City, take the red Canal Streetcar.

"Tree of Necklaces" at City Park Sculpture Garden in New Orleans
“Tree of Necklaces” at City Park Sculpture Garden (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

6. Get a couple's fortune reading.

Voodoo is a big part of New Orleans' culture. You don't need to be a believer to have a little fun with Voodoo during your stay. Everything's better together, so make a reservation for a couple's reading to learn your fortunes at Voodoo Authentica in the French Quarter. While there, pick up a Love and Passion Voodoo Doll to spice up your love life. Hey…couldn't hurt! If you and your honey dig all things spooky, then sign up for a Ghosts, Vampire & Voodoo French Quarter Tour.

Newlyweds in the French Quarter
Newlyweds in the French Quarter (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

7. Eat Creole cuisine.

New Orleans is famous for its flavorful Creole cuisine. Sample some of the city's favorite dishes like gumbo and beignets while learning about the history and importance of food in Cajun Country with a French Quarter Food Tour. For an even more in-depth experience, sign up for a Lunch & Lesson: Cajun & Creole Cooking Class, complete with a multicourse Cajun and Creole meal, beverages, and printed recipes.

Commander's Palace

If celebrating an anniversary or other big event, then you must make reservations at Commander's Palace in the Garden District. My husband and I splurged on dinner at this renowned restaurant on the night of our 15th wedding anniversary. This is old-school New Orleans at its finest. Be sure to order their famous table-side bananas foster for a sultry, caramelized top for your evening.

Crawfish O'Connor at Arnaud's Restaurant
Crawfish O'Connor at Arnaud's Restaurant (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

Arnaud's Restaurant

My husband and I spared little expense when dining in New Orleans, and we both came home with a little extra love in our love handles because of it. The best restaurant by far was Arnaud's Restaurant. It was so good, in fact, that we went back for a second meal during our romantic getaway. Order their unforgettable Crawfish O'Connor, the restaurant's brandy-infused version of crawfish étoufée. This is a dish that will forever live in your mouths' memories.

Oysters in New Orleans

Known as an aphrodisiac, oysters are a specialty in New Orleans. Michael Jackson has been shucking oysters and making friends with diners at Felix's Restaurant and Oyster Bar since 1999. (Yes, that's his real name.) He's who you picture when you think of a N'awlin's oyster shucker, with a gravelly voice like Louis Armstrong and an easy laugh. Across the street is the more famous Acme Oyster House, where the line out front is significantly longer. Both restaurants earned four stars on Yelp.

Bayou Platter Sampler at Felix's Restaurant & Oyster Bar
Bayou Platter Sampler at Felix's Restaurant & Oyster Bar (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

8. Indulge in New Orleans sweets.

You've heard of Café du Monde, of course. But a local advised us to skip their long lines and pre-made beignets in favor of the made-to-order delights at Café Beignet. Although I'm gluten-sensitive, I indulged in one of their freshly fried square doughnuts topped with powdered sugar. They're delectably sweet, chewy, and soft with just a slight crunch.

Pralines are all the rage in New Orleans. These confections are made from pecans, sugar, butter, and cream. A bit too sweet for my palate, I prefer the Louisiana Turtles (pecans draped in caramel and dark or milk chocolate) at Laura's Candies. The oldest candy shop in New Orleans offers all sorts of pralines, as well as truffles, chocolate-covered Oreos, and other candies.

Made-to-order beignets at Cafe Beignet
Made-to-order beignets at Cafe Beignet (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

9. Choose a romantic hotel.

Booking the right hotel is imperative when seeking romance in New Orleans. For me, nowhere but the famous French Quarter would do. I wanted to stay somewhere intimate, with that romantic New Orleans curly-cued architecture and French accents. That's exactly what I found at Hotel Mazarin. This friendly luxury boutique hotel serves a complimentary hot breakfast to guests in a pretty courtyard each morning. Read more about this hotel and book your stay via

Courtyard fountain at Hotel Mazarin
Beautiful courtyard fountain at Hotel Mazarin (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

For a more modern vibe, choose sister property Hotel Le Marais. Purple is the signature color at this chic hotel. Located just a block from Bourbon Street, you'll be close to the action but far enough away that you can sleep peacefully. My favorite part during our romantic getaway in New Orleans? The swanky courtyard pool provides a refreshing way to cool off after a hot day exploring the city. Breakfast is also included here. Read reviews of Hotel Le Marais on

Hotel Mazarin and Hotel Le Marais are both members of the J Collection of hotels in New Orleans. All of their properties boast glowing reviews and would surely make lovely lodging options while exploring all the romantic things to do in New Orleans.

Hotel Le Marais pool
A refreshing oasis at Hotel Le Marais (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

10. Bring home the flavor and romance of New Orleans.

Part of the pleasure of any trip to New Orleans is wandering through the French Quarter and popping into the many cute boutiques and souvenir shops. Of course, you'll want to buy some Mardi Gras beads and maybe a Carnival mask or two. Forever New Orleans offers upscale souvenirs celebrating all things Crescent City. Stop at Santa's Quarters to add a little jazz to your Christmas ornament collection. Art Galleries abound in the French Quarter, which are fun to peruse even if you don't make a purchase. At the Pepper Palace, you can sample dozens of hot sauces before selecting your favorite to bring a little Louisiana spice home with you. Lastly, you'll feel less guilty about leaving the kids at home when you pick up a couple of gifts from the Little Toy Shop.

Mardi Gras masks for sale on Bourbon Street
Mardi Gras masks for sale on Bourbon Street (Photo credit: Colleen Lanin)

Learn More about New Orleans

Bringing the kids along? Be sure to read our tips for visiting New Orleans with kids!

Explore even more fun things to do and interesting tours to book in New Orleans from our partner, GetYourGuide.


I found Frommer's EasyGuide to New Orleans to be a very helpful resource in planning our trip. It's a pocket-sized book with smart ways to explore the city and includes a handy foldout map. Get your New Orleans guidebook now!

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A Note from The Travel Mama: I received some media discounts and comps from the J Collection and the New Orleans Convention & Visitors Bureau related to this story about romance in New Orleans. As always, my opinions are my own. 

About Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama

Colleen Lanin, MBA, is the founder and editor-in-chief of the popular travel blog, She is an expert in travel with kids and without. As the author of the book, "The Travel Mamas' Guide," she teaches parents how to make the most of traveling with babies and children. Colleen loves sharing tips on hotels, cruises, spas, theme parks, and global lifestyle topics. When she is not traveling the world, she lives in Arizona with her husband and two kids.

  1. Hi Colleen Lanin,
    I was just searching for tips to romance in Orleans and then I landed on this blog & I got all my answers Thank You for this amazing information and Best of Luck for your future trips!

    • Colleen Lanin says

      So glad you found these tips helpful, Akshay! Have a wonderful time in New Orleans on your romantic getaway!

  2. I’ve never been to New Orleans. It seems like a fun place. I would love to visit New Orleans one day.Thank you for a great post.

    • Colleen Lanin says

      New Orleans really is one of my favorite cities in the world — it’s so friendly and has such a unique vibe. I hope you can visit NOLA someday!

  3. Shannon Entin says

    Ah, that photo of the beignets takes me back. I only had two days in NOLA (with kids), so I’m looking forward to getting back for some adult time – hopefully this fall!

  4. Linzi Clark says

    Great article – New Orleans looks an amazing melting pot of cultures – I was particularly intrigued by the love and passion voodoo doll – did it work?!

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      Hi Linzi – We didn’t buy a passion voodoo doll but my husband did get his fortune read at Voodoo Authentica. It’s all in good fun!

  5. Rhonda Swan says

    Thank you for such a great post!. New Orleans so often gets tagged as just a party city but there is so much more to this beautiful place. There is so much history, culture, art, and not to mention the great food! You have shared some very valuable keys to having a great “romantic” experience in beautiful city. Thank you for being and helping others to be “Unstoppable”

    Cheers from the Unstoppable Family!

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      Thank you for your comment, Rhonda. I found New Orleans to be incredibly romantic. So glad I was able to visit such a lovely and friendly city with my husband.

  6. balayi villasi says

    I was searching a place for my honeymoon and I found your blog and this article.Thanks for giving such wonderful romantic place advices.I would like to listen live jazz music and walk hand in hand in City Park. Coctail culture seems fantastic.Also Mississippi River would be nice.

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! New Orleans would be a wonderful place to honeymoon. Enjoy!

  7. Sapana V says

    Such a nice place for lovers. It seems extremely beautiful and romantic place.

  8. Ah, what a great and beautiful city. I’ve never heard of a cocktail tour before, but I love it! Can’t wait to visit New Orleans myself. My younger sister is also a huge fan of Anne Rice’s books.

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      A sisters trip to New Orleans would be so fun! Hope you get to visit the Big Easy sometime soon!

  9. Karlaroundtheworld | Karla says

    New Orleans does have a unique flair contrary to other places. My friend once said, “you’ll find everything and all that jazz in this city”.

  10. Oh nice! Looks like such a fun trip!

  11. I’ve never been to New Orleans and I am dying to get there. I love this post so much, I am going to show this to my husband and convince him that we need to go!

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      Brianne – Oh wonderful! I hope you can convince him. I’m sure you two would have an incredible time in N’awlins!

  12. Nicole Escat says

    Wow, I want to go to this place. Me and hubby will surely enjoy the romantic ambiance there.

  13. I haven’t been inNew Orleans. Looks like a very romantic place, I will include this in my bucket list.

  14. Ann Bacciaglia says

    I have always wanted to go to New Orleans. It looks like it would be so much fun. It has a ton of fun activities to do.

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      Ann – Yes, you certainly won’t be bored in New Orleans! I really recommend signing up for a tour or two while there to maximize your visit.

  15. I am not really looking for romance right now, but there’s no denying that New Orleans is such a lovely place! I think these are great ideas and it’s perfect for both old and new couples.

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      I totally understand, Amanda. New Orleans has great things to do for romance, family vacations, girlfriend getaways and more!

  16. Anjanette @MommaYoung says

    This place looks like the perfect getaway! I have not had the pleasure to go to New Orleans so this post has me wanting to go more and more. The images shared here are just breathtaking! Thanks for sharing!

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      Thank you for your comment! I am glad you enjoyed the photos and hope you can visit New Orleans soon!

  17. Shannon Graham says

    My husband and I do live music. However, we’ve never gotten to see jazz performers before! On our to-do list for sure!

  18. Annemarie LeBlanc says

    Oh, such a romantic getaway! I am sure my husband would love to walk hand in hand in New Orleans City Park! I did not know there were so many romantic spots in New Orleans. I hope we can celebrate our wedding anniversary here next year.

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      You’ll love it, Annemarie! I hope you and your husband can visit next year for your anniversary!

  19. Toni | says

    This is such a great place during your honeymoon or anniversary! Love is in the air! I love the romantic ambiance!

  20. New Orleans is extremely high on my US travel bucket list and there is no one I would rather have accompany me than my husband. It is nice to know that there is room for romance along with all of the culture and history.

  21. NOLA is definitely on my travel bucket list to head to when the kids move out. It does seem like a city rich in history and romance. I can’t wait to tour it myself someday!

  22. Chrystal | Nevermore Lane says

    When I lived in Oklahoma it seems like all of my friends were constantly road-tripping to Nawlins’ for this or that and I never got a chance to go. I lived in OK for most of my life and now that I live in MI I sure wish I would have gone on one of those road trips.

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      It’s not too late, Chrystal! Sign up for a fare alert with a website like Kayak or and pounce on a flight to New Orleans as soon as the price dips!

  23. Kelly Hutchinson says

    I have always wanted to go to New Orleans. Going there with the hubby will be great and we will take advantage of all of these ideas.

  24. Diana Elizabeth says

    The south is romantic itself, isn’t it? The weeping willows, the architecture, swoon. I think I’m overdue on a visit, love New Orleans!

  25. New Orleans looks so beautiful! This is definitely somewhere my husband and I would have a ton of fun visiting!

  26. Chavonne Harvey says

    Yes we’d love to visit, I think we’d have a wonderful time. I love all of these ideas especially staying at a romantic hotel and walking hand in hand through the city park and enjoying the cuisine.

  27. Pam Wattenbarger says

    These are all great ways to find some romance in New Orleans. I actually stopped in New Orleans with my husband while on our honeymoon.

  28. Catherine Sargent says

    This looks like a great place to visit with your loved one. I would love to go and get a made-to-order beignet.

    • Colleen Lanin, The Travel Mama says

      My husband waited in the loooong line at Cafe du Monde to taste a beignet for comparison. He said it was dry and unappetizing so he only had one bite and threw the rest away. You really must go to Cafe Beignet for the best beignet in New Orleans!

  29. I’m so glad you mentioned live jazz. Definitely one of my favorite experiences in that area!

  30. Wow, had heard about wine tours but cocktail walking tours? Had never heard about it 😮
    New Orleans looks colorful as well. Loved the post 🙂

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